Humans Don't Amaze Me Anymore...

       

   Humans don't amaze me anymore...

It doesn't mean that I have no good humans left in my life. I've seen the best and worst humans in my journey, and the best and worst of the humans who are still there may be there forever. And there were days when I felt that all I wanted was a group around me; there were days when I felt that I should run away to a faraway land where no humans exist. This might seem like I've lost interest in people, but I definitely have not. Just that I've realized how things work. I’ve wondered how the same person could react in two different ways to the same situation, one being kinder and the other being the opposite. Often, that’s pretended to be a situational demand. Do these mean I’m a supernatural being who lives beyond these realities? No, I don’t think so because I’m one of them too, and that’s why I said humans don’t amaze me anymore.

   I’ve been betrayed, cheated, and ill-treated at the same time I’ve been pampered, loved, and cared for. I’ve seen both coming from the same people too. The one who realizes and really takes steps to sort it out stays, and others simply leave; it's good for them and for me too. Have I not hurt anyone? Yes, many times, both knowingly and unknowingly; hence, humans don’t amaze me anymore.

    I’m reminded of a scenario that happened between Jesus and his disciples. Let me briefly describe it. It goes this way: One day Jesus was worrying, realizing that people come to him only for miracles, and they don’t seek him unless. On that very day, people came to him to receive a miracle, and they just left. A heartbroken Christ turns to his disciples and asks them, Will you also leave me? So, then Peter, his fervent and enthusiastic disciple, replied, "Where would we go, Lord?" leaving you, for you have the words of eternal life. I believe that would have been the answer of his other disciples too. But things flipped; Jesus was betrayed by one of his disciples, Judas, for just 30 pieces of silver. And the enthusiastic Peter betrayed him three times, saying I did not know him. Almost all his disciples left him during the crucifixion out of fear, except for one. None continued the good work after Christ. Until the moment when the resurrected Christ appeared in front of them and encouraged them to continue to do good deeds after him. They all (except Judas, who hung himself upside down to death) did so after a couple of encouragements from the resurrected Christ. 

I’m perplexed: How can people betray someone like Christ after witnessing all that he has done? Shouldn’t they continue the ministry of Christ without hesitation? Well, I’ve been like them too, so humans don’t amaze me anymore.

  Without a potter's hand, clay can't be molded into a pot; in the same way, without the creator’s hand, no human can be kind or lovely; all the kindness and love that I’ve received and will receive from people is and will be because of him only. Because, as I said, I’ve seen the best and worst in the same people, the people who hurt me the most were actually my loved ones, who are still and will always be there. The ones that I have hurt the most are also them. They often blamed the situation, and I too did the same. Hence, humans don’t amaze me anymore.

THE CRIMSON WAR!

It all started when my hormones decided to have a party in 

the presence of my organs. Yeah, I'm talking about that undeniable rollercoaster, which starts when every girl steps onto the teenage scene. The moment I was "invited" to this ride, I didn't realise that it was going to be a gallop. And never did I comprehend that I had to wrestle with my very own hormones since then. Apparently, I don't remember having a peaceful "that time of the month." May be 1 or 2 times. Though every time my fore, mid, and hind brains seek a way to enjoy this pain-filled crimson "party," concrete disagreement would be decreed by the other organs of mine under the control of my "pear-shaped" organ...

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That day was one such "party day," when my hormones decided to dance on a trampoline. Aww! that "sine wave" movement though! No one around me realised what I was going through. Obviously, after all, it's a "private party." I desperately wanted to convey my disinterest in this party to someone, thinking they might lend a hand to help me fight this battle. None did I find. And the party continued; my hormones hit a high state, but still, none did I find.

PS:A normal "Period Working Day" in my life, swollen legs, irritated thighs being scratched by unseen saws, blood-filled panties. Yes, that's a normal period day for me. Hmm..this is the least of all such period days. If I need to explain the worst of all, I might run out of words.


THE STRUGGLE IS REAL. SOMETIMES IT JUST SEEMS TO BE A WRESTLING GAME, BUT ON SOME DAYS IT'S A REAL WAR, AN UNSEEN WAR, WHICH LEAVES THE CRIMSON PRECIPITATE OUTSIDE THE BATTLEFIELD. However, it's a one-woman war in a private spot. 

Wait, is there any way to diminish the psychological effect of this war? LOVE, CERTAINLY. 

YOU'RE NOT ALONE, GIRL
#LOVE IS ALL WE NEED

Much love from a girl like you,
✍🏻DEB❤
 

Ctrl+C and Ctrl+V - A New Kind Of Innovation

Hola!! My Beloveds❤ I'm back here after a long time with yet another important message🙋‍♀️.

Copying someone else's work and claiming it as their own has become a viral trend in recent days. If you ask me, 'Is it that important to discuss this?' I would say,  Yes It is.

Right from my childhood, I've had this question in my heart: 'why do people (not all but most of them) always fight for others' things and claim them as their own?'.  As years passed by, God taught me the root cause of it through various experiences.

Let me explain it.

     Some people copy & paste because they're too busy to bring out the original work and some do that because they don't know how to prepare one on their own. So, let's leave them. But, what about people who accept those copied works and give them a reward? Should it be rewarded? ️Doesn't this seem unrighteous? Of course it is.

This is not just about disrespecting the original work or the people who do that. It's also about nurturing the weeds 🌵instead of crops 🌾. Yes! It's that very serious. After nurturing them(copying people) for a long time and suddenly one day, expecting originality in their work is  totally unfair and highly impossible too. It's like expecting fruit🌵from the weed grown inside the fruit yard🍎.

And to the evaluators, unless you stop nurturing them (copying people), they are not going to change✖️. As long as people like you exist, there will be more weed🌵🌵🌵🌵🌵 in this world than edible crops🌾🌾🌾. If God has given you the opportunity to guide, teach, analyze and mentor, use it wisely.

Keeping the mistake on our side and blaming the world for that, 'its fake' is absolutely unfair. Everyone is not given the opportunity to guide or teach officially. If we have that, ain't we the most responsible people? Let's think 'whether we are taking this seriously and working wholeheartedly?'

Let's take time to analyze, to appreciate the little things 👏 done authentically, to correct them gently and to nurture them in the way they should be. Yes, it's tough to do. But, that's what we are meant to do, right? Let's remind us, that we cannot accept & encourage someone who's stealing others' kids and claiming them as their own. Hope we'll do it in the right way, at least from now.

Growing the Weed and Growing the Crop all lie in the hands of the gardener.

LET'S ACT WISELY!

On the process of planting love

✍ Debi...

Mr.X,Who is it? Read till the End

Let me introduce a person to you all. His name is Mr.X😮. He has been my best companion since childhood and was introduced to me by my mom. He was my very best friend, motivator, energy booster, everything😁. During my childhood, whenever I was in need of him, my mom or dad used to take him to me. Many a time, whenever I am down, he usually motivates me and boosts me up. We had a good time together and I was lavishly spending time with him💟. As time passed by, at the age of 13, I decided to take him as my companion. But for a girl in India, was it the right age to choose her own companion?😕 Thinking a lot about it, I finally decided to have him as my companion💘and days rolled as we had a beautiful time together💖. One fine day, I planned to introduce him to my parents. Yes, to the parents who introduced him to me with lots of expectation💑.And I got this comment from my father "EXCELLENT"💃.

   One day, all of a sudden I fell sick😩.  Then I was taken to a physician. The thing that he said shocked me. I was told that the reason for my sickness was Mr.X, since I ignored him. And then I was so grieved and thought about it😌. There came a lady asking for Mr.X. I wondered because till then my thought was,  he belonged only to me. But that day I came to know that he is a super hero who is needed by many people💭. Then I came to a clarification and sent him to the lady. The gift in return surprised us so much. It was tons and tons of love from her, more than what I'll get by enjoying his company alone😍. From then onwards, I decided two things in my life, that I am not gonna ignore him and going to send him to those who are really in need of him. Again the other day while travelling, I saw lots of people who were in need of Mr.X.  So, it made my decision so strong💪.

 Now its time to reveal the person behind the description. No celebration would be complete without him💫, he is the basic need of every person💭 and he is the ultimate source of energy😃 and here he is none other than Mr.Food😁. Yes, the person who gives you more love when shared than enjoying him alone😍. We might have come across many surveys and talked about it😌 but let us think in this way now.  Everyone of us in someway or other  love food😍, but let's see from a tilted perspective. When you have more food to eat, just think it is really needed and try to share it with somebody who is really in need of it. Or try sharing or offering food to somebody in need. Then I can promise you three things. Those are: 

1. You will start to love food more than before😍.

2. You will never waste your food😊.

3. You will not overeat your food😁.

Just give it a try and comment below💬